This Doesn’t Work for Me!

“This doesn’t work for me!”

Have you found yourself saying or thinking this?

Perhaps you started a new program or a new online business or bought into an online “business in a box” and you’ve come to the point where you are saying this … “it doesn’t work for me!”

Don’t Quit … please read on … very important …

A friend and mentor shared this just recently – it is one of the most honest and down to earth posts from a friend about to quit

There is no doubt It will resonate with many people out there and if you recognise yourself in it (we all can) or you know someone who would benefit from reading it please share it.
“It seems like it is all there, the dream system, everything you need, right?

So I did some digging to figure out what was missing, that one missing ingredient that caused this massive failure…..and I finally found it.

Its ME! Yep Me!”

For a whole year this person hadn’t done a thing. No solo ads.  No FaceBook ads.  No email follow up… Nothing, zilch, zero… they were a complete lump on a log, did nothing yet hoped for the best.

“You see there is nothing wrong with this system, the only thing wrong is me.

If you have been struggling with this system, or any system for that matter, then the problem is likely you too.

The thing that is missing is MY ACTION.

No Action = No Results. Duh.

It wasn’t the system’s fault, it was my fault. You see all these other people making sales, doing great, but others not so much. Well I will put money on it that they also took none to very little action. Now I am not saying action would have made me a millionaire over night, but I would have been closer than I am today.

So why didn’t I take any action? Well I told myself all sort of things:    
I’m a slave to analysis paralysis, family issues, busy at work, focusing on eCom, no… CPA, no… bitcoin, no… MLM, no.. red-headed chihuahua breeder, no… 2-ring circus promoter…… so many excuses, so scattered, always chasing the shiny object.

Yeah this is what I told myself, but then I dug even deeper ‘cause all that is just excuses. what was the real reason I didn’t take any action?

In reality I have been buying my way through the internet looking for the so-called holy grail for several years. I have spent way more than I want to admit, maybe more than I did for my bachelors and two masters degrees combined. Opportunity after opportunity, training after training, tool after tool. Yet before the ink was dry on the payment I was looking for the next.

Why? Why would I spend tens upon tens of thousands of dollars on all these but not run some simple ads? Good question, i wish there was a Shiny Object Buyers Anonymous support group, … maybe I will start one. But I needed deep introspection, so I dug deeper…..

And I think I finally found it. Ta Da!!!!

Quite simple actually – I was riding high on hope, and protecting myself from failure.

But it isn’t quite what you are thinking. I wasn’t afraid of failure itself, but what failure meant for my dreams. You see I am an eternal optimist, I always believe things will work out in the end, I am a dreamer and see hope in my life and the world. So if I am to actually execute on these systems and trainings, and it doesn’t work, it isn’t just that it didn’t work, but it means my dreams are crushed. And there is nothing worse to an eternal optimist than crushed dreams. So I was buying on the hope that the systems and products promised, but not executing to prevent the hope from being extinguished. This was ever so evident in the fact that I bought a grand worth of solo ads, but never actually sent them. How stupid is that? I got to the point of buying hope of a great solo, but didn’t send anything for fear of it being a dream crusher.

I know it sounds stupid, it is a sickness really. But as they say in every 12 step program the first step is acknowledgement. Now that I really understand and have acknowledged the problem, I can take steps to fix it.

So I am turning off almost all emails, leaving tons of FB groups, focusing on taking action on all the systems and tools in my arsenal. Any new ideas will be tabled, until current projects are fulfilled. I will be reaching out on those solos I bought to send them to our promotions.

In conclusion. I re-state my first Statement.

The System doesn’t work for me! Because I don’t work the System.

Systems don’t fail, people do, and I did. If you are struggling look in the mirror before you blame the system”

I am sure many of you out there can identify with the story above.   I certainly can.   If we are honest, we all can in one or other way.

So, today I urge you to take constructive and positive action to achieve the dream you have.  You can do it!

Reach out to me any further questions.

To your success

 

Work with Day Ashton

Dailene Ashton (aka Day Ashton)

Email: getworkingwithday@gmail.com
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(with thanks to Chris & Susan Beesley for sharing the original post)

Making Money Online … the Myth …

The Myth“I can make money online without investing time, effort and/or money”

The Reality:  It Takes Money To Make Money

We are still very early in the new year, 2017 and this will help you to cut through all the rubbish info out there about having a successful business / being an entrepreneur.

Recently I read a post from my friends and mentors about an extremely successful entrepreneur (whom they know personally) and who also gets the same kind of messages emails common to successful entrepreneurs.   Messages like this …

“Can you give me some tips and show me exactly how to get the results you get in your business? If you could just hold me by the hand and show me what you do, I’m willing to do whatever it takes…..”

Here’s what he said (some really straight talking!!) ….

“Okay, ready for THE TRUTH? Don’t expect to be able to do what I do until you’re willing to:

  1. Invest in your education as we have and continue to do. If one is not willing to purchase education on how to successfully market on the Internet, then one cannot expect others who are successful to invest time (their most valuable asset on the planet) in teaching one the things the products are designed to teach one….the products which people refuse to buy .  If someone seriously wants results in one’s business but has no clue how to get them, … then investment in ONESELF is a must.  It’s the smartest investment a human being/entrepreneur can make.
  2. Work hard. If one is under the impression that success comes easily without any persistent hard work, then you’re in for a rude awakening this year. There is NO easy button and probably NEVER will be. If one is looking for a get rich quick scheme, there are plenty of those to choose from online but, … if it’s a long-term sustainable result being looked for, one had better be prepared to develop one’s business and marketing muscles….starting today!
  3. Take RISK!   No risk, no reward!  If one is looking to make money as an entrepreneur in 2017 but unwilling to take any significant risk, then …..don’t quit the day-job because there’s unlikely to be a single entrepreneur who doesn’t take big risk to achieve their goals. This will require one to step up outside one’s comfort zone and do things one would normally NEVER dare dream of doing. If one is looking to start a legitimate online business without investing a single dime until a profit is seen ….guess what? We highly doubt a single dime of profit will ever be seen because one is approaching being in business with the mindset of an employee…. or the question has to be asked, is that person really in business at all.   Maybe they’re just a “wannabe” with a hobby

This is a brilliant challenge and is absolutely true!

Now that I’ve got all that out of the way here’s my tip for you:

“You can create RESULTS or you can create EXCUSES but you cannot create both. Which will you choose to create this year?”

If you have questions or comments, get back to me.   But one thing is certain … if you are serious about making a difference, you need to make the choice.

Speak again soon

Work with Day Ashton
(A word of thanks to Chris, Susan and Justin for sharing this advice and saying it as it is and thank you for being an inspiration to so many)

Want to know more about Internet Marketing?

Network Marketing … Online Marketing … Is there a difference?

Things can be so confusing when starting or building an online business or
service …
There is a HUGE difference!

Ultimately it is the way someone chooses to market their product or service.  But let us look a little closer.   Ryan Cody McMorris, an internet marketer with years of experience explained it like this …

NETWORK MARKETING
A network marketer is someone who takes a product or service & markets that product or service through other people’s networks. That means – for example, I know Mary and I would love for her to buy or try this product or service and then when she does have a good experience with that product or service, she can go out and share that product or service with her network and they in turn can go out and share that product or service with their network …
ONLINE MARKETING
This is strictly about sales. No multi-level to it. Moving a product into someone else’s hands and making the sale.
HYBRID MARKETING
This means being an excellent network marketer but knowing how to use the internet and leverage the internet in a way that one can build a network marketing business.
In other words, a network marketer should know how to use the internet effectively to build their business. They need to provide value. They need to reach out to others.
In years gone by, the internet marketer could possibly get away with marketing in one or two specific styles.    Not today anymore!
Successful Marketers today need to be hybrid marketers.  It is necessary to integrate the old and new marketing methods or channels and blend them into an effective dynamic marketing strategy.
To be successful online, you need to learn new skills.  Many of theses skills are easily learnt, particularly if one has access (often at no cost) to excellent training.  This can be done at home in your spare time.
Stay up to date with how the internet its moving forward – new ways of marketing- more effective ways. People today want their information quickly!
For more tips on how to market effectively and reach a targeted market, stay tuned to my blog. Make sure you subscribe to my blog and get all the updates.
Oh … here is something to get you started!!Have you used Instagram to market your product or service?
Not sure how to?

Then, here is an opportunity to get brilliant top class FREE training on how to use Instagram to build your business!  Simply follow this link and start moving forward.Take advantage of this superb training.

To your success

Day

DAILENE ASHTON (aka DAY ASHTON)
Internet Marketer & Coach
Email: getworkingwithday@gmail.com
Skype: dayashton1
Blog: http://workwithdayashton.com/